probably it doesn't makes sense to you that i kept on talking about the w-day when i still call mr.bofwen.... mr bofwen! *cheeky grin*
the truth is, we are not engaged. not yet.
the original plan was to merisik+bertunang on the same day BUT mendapat tentangan hebat from my family yang sungguh beradat! i then dirisik-ed on the 10th syawal (which was on the 19th sept 2010) and t'was a very,very,very simple meeting between these two families. well, mama being mama, invited her whole nogori clan! we exchanged food (nasi arab- future FIL's specialities! and lemang+rendang kampung wan don nogori's style).
i then was given a cincin bilah rotan as "tanda". it's yellow gold. maybe macam kampung to some of you but I LOVE IT! classic gitu ;) just like us; old couple. sudah lapuk tapi still hangat! rofl.
since we knew each for years and years already, we actually considered of kahwin terus! but parental units decided to have a mini-engagement ceremony just to get to know both sides' keluarga kembangan, prior to the wedding. insyallah it'll be on christmas day.
and memanglah i've started working BUT belum terima gaji, so abah offered to pay for most of the stuff. *hugs for daddy dearest* i'm trying to contribute as much as i can. thus GOOD+ EFFICIENT financial planning sangat lah crucial! every cent counts ohkay *wink*
unfortunately, im unable to invite all of the friends to the engagement thingy since it's sort of private. it's no biggie, by the way. just a small engagement.
insyallah, panjang umur murah rezeki, you lots will be invited to the BIG DAY itself! let's save-the-date for w-day after the engagement lah, shall we?
please pray that everything goes smooth sailing untuk kami *fingers crossed*
5 comments:
ooo syabas! risikan orang rupanya ;) ;)
congrats Ash!!! *hugs*
elok2 buat prep tunang :D dont forget to breathe! :D
So happy for u altho we already saw this coming back in LDN
Congrats, BRIDE-to-BEE
*wink*
::myra::
hihihi thanks kak long!!! preparations for e-day..uhmmm.... looking at the effort, mmg sangat simple lah! hahahaha. ohwell, no point spending too much on dat, gotta save for the real, big day ;))
::ahui::
ahaha u knowwww alot more ;)) will update you girls since got some changes la! so korang can plan the *cough*hols*cough* love ya!
all the best to u and mujed! u guys memang sweeet! exciting nyaaaaaa for u! and smart idea to do it b4 u get ur 1st paycheck that ur daddy pays for it.. i tak sempat dah..
helen, we are sweeeettt? u sure or not? always ldr je :P hahahaha tulaaa u kenot dei. got ur first paycheck dei. when ru treating me ni? ;))
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