based on my observation (and correct me if i'm wrong), i noticed that guys can be friends with whoever so easily. but girls tend to pick their favourite people and form a clan. well macam geng la gitu. they do everything together - gossiping, sleep-over, shopping etc. sangat obvious in high-school, no?
the sad thing is that as you grow up, everyone seems to have their own paths in life. some got offered to study abroad, some been tied up with excessive workloads, some got married and beranak pinak while some just mischiveously went missing.
but of course, you have to try to maintain the friendships by having the get-together from time to time. and this time, you don't come alone like when you were in high-school where your dad dropped you off at her house for sleep-over. naaah, this time you came with your partner.
then it got me thinking.
if we were to catch up among ourselves, wouldn't it be better if everyone comes as partner-less? to me it seems like you don't really "talk" when the boys are around. because they'll be bored to death listening to the girlie-talks and might feel left out sumore. then you end up talking and layan-ing your boyfriend when you are meant to re-connect with your girls.
you know what annoys me the most?
when you have girls' only (duuh obviously) sleep-over and the gf busy texting him underneath the blanket. oklah, girls can multi-task better than guys but..... when the text notifications keeps on bleeping all the time?
i guess it's just how you handle the friendships outside of your relationship with the boyfriend. some people like to hang on their other half and do nothing without them. in a way, i felt kesian towards them....sebab takde life sendiri! too dependent/clinging on others.
what if the bf runs away someday?
the sad thing is that as you grow up, everyone seems to have their own paths in life. some got offered to study abroad, some been tied up with excessive workloads, some got married and beranak pinak while some just mischiveously went missing.
but of course, you have to try to maintain the friendships by having the get-together from time to time. and this time, you don't come alone like when you were in high-school where your dad dropped you off at her house for sleep-over. naaah, this time you came with your partner.
then it got me thinking.
if we were to catch up among ourselves, wouldn't it be better if everyone comes as partner-less? to me it seems like you don't really "talk" when the boys are around. because they'll be bored to death listening to the girlie-talks and might feel left out sumore. then you end up talking and layan-ing your boyfriend when you are meant to re-connect with your girls.
you know what annoys me the most?
when you have girls' only (duuh obviously) sleep-over and the gf busy texting him underneath the blanket. oklah, girls can multi-task better than guys but..... when the text notifications keeps on bleeping all the time?
i guess it's just how you handle the friendships outside of your relationship with the boyfriend. some people like to hang on their other half and do nothing without them. in a way, i felt kesian towards them....sebab takde life sendiri! too dependent/clinging on others.
what if the bf runs away someday?
6 comments:
then they need to find their life again..
whens sleepover?!?!
i pun maraaaah mcm geram helooo mentang2 aku takde bf. ishhhh. yg laki tu pun satu heloooo kasi la time gf nak spend with her gfs, unless the girl tu pun same biul haha. lol.
::helen::
and start looking for their old gfs that have been left behind while they were still with the bf. sigh. dipergunakan ohkay!!! mcm convenient store; people come and go when they want. pfffftttttt.
sleepover? your room kah; which is just next to mine? rofl. lets go on holiday and have our sleepover in a nicer room!
::husna::
hahahahah comment you lawak nak mati ok! emo pun ade jugak. but right, each party should have some private time with friends. not all the time but once in a while laaaa right? dah kawin nnti sure can tgk muka 24/7 sampai naik muak ohkay :P
HOHO.. Pernah terlintas to write almost the same thing, but "the other way" around. Well the thing is that, lately I spent banyak masa with a bunch of cool people (boys and girls) yang ada special someone tapi sgt relax, cool and takde nak keep on updating their bf/gf about things yang diorang tgh buat throughout our activities and outings. Trust itu penting, and jujur pun double penting jugak... Kan kan kan?
I do have few friends yang kind of acting in such way macam yang you mentioned in your entry. Mesti la sangat mual okayyy.. And I super duper agree pasal partner-less tu. :))
hello nono!
hahaha i hope u don't get me wrong, nnti u ingat i tak suke lepak dgn mixture of people pulak! bukan anti-social k. cume kadang2 sbb dah lama tk meet up with the girls, terasa nak do some girlie stuff mcm pegi massage ke spa ke and all those girlie stuff la. of course best jugak lepak secara double/triple/quadraple date ni... lagi meriah especially time celebrate birthday. i guess once in a while, nice to have girls-only session :))
and yesssss, trust and honesty the key of success for any relationship! bingo.
muka you tak potray you nie anti social okay ;p
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