To fall in love is easy. Dari mata jatuh ke hati. People said it's not the physical that matters. It's what in the heart that's important. But pikir punye pikir, isn't it the cute face, the hot figure, the sweet smile, the sexy voice that make you want to get to know the person better? You can't be dreaming of somebody you just met sebab he just helped an old lady crossed the street or he managed to catch the guy who snatched your handbag? unless he's handsome and "panas macam pisang goreng"! takke? ;)
And so you met. You date.Go out for some good movie, good food. And swoosh, you're an item.
To forever stay in the i-love-you-and-you-love-me zone is tough! It's true that feelings can grow. BUT they can go away too! Let's face it; sometimes love slips away. And when it does, you just can't get it back. Some people thought that ,"Owh dah dpt dah ni. Takyalah effort byk2 sgt." eeeeerrrkkkkk! Wrong!!!! Who said that once you are in a relationship, you cant walk away from it? Think of the relationship as an investment. Macam you melabur saham. You pantau from time to time, kaji what steps you should do next (nak jual ke, nak beli lagi ke). Or if you tanam pokok. You dont just leave your plant like that kan... You siram everyday, cantas the dahan, gembur the tanah and add baja hoping that it'll grow more and more flowers :)
But sometimes, probably after all the efforts, you still fail to stay in love. Blame the distance. Blame the third person. Blame the busy life. Blame the rock in the middle of the road. Blame anything you want. Blame everything that you see. Bak kata Pierre Andre dlm Gol&Gincu,"Ye, memang bola tu yang salah kan?!" Kenyataannya, the love is no longer there.
Everybody dreams of a happily-ever-after ending when it comes to relationship. The truth is, that ending is reserved only for a fairytale story. Those stories that you tell lil kids to get them to fall asleep. The person you love doesn't necessarily love you back. A pair of lovebirds can't be together probably due to the different status or religion. A wife will be seperated from her husband who died in an accident or natural cause. A marriage of 10 years falls apart when another person enters into the picture.
And so you met. You date.Go out for some good movie, good food. And swoosh, you're an item.
To forever stay in the i-love-you-and-you-love-me zone is tough! It's true that feelings can grow. BUT they can go away too! Let's face it; sometimes love slips away. And when it does, you just can't get it back. Some people thought that ,"Owh dah dpt dah ni. Takyalah effort byk2 sgt." eeeeerrrkkkkk! Wrong!!!! Who said that once you are in a relationship, you cant walk away from it? Think of the relationship as an investment. Macam you melabur saham. You pantau from time to time, kaji what steps you should do next (nak jual ke, nak beli lagi ke). Or if you tanam pokok. You dont just leave your plant like that kan... You siram everyday, cantas the dahan, gembur the tanah and add baja hoping that it'll grow more and more flowers :)
But sometimes, probably after all the efforts, you still fail to stay in love. Blame the distance. Blame the third person. Blame the busy life. Blame the rock in the middle of the road. Blame anything you want. Blame everything that you see. Bak kata Pierre Andre dlm Gol&Gincu,"Ye, memang bola tu yang salah kan?!" Kenyataannya, the love is no longer there.
Everybody dreams of a happily-ever-after ending when it comes to relationship. The truth is, that ending is reserved only for a fairytale story. Those stories that you tell lil kids to get them to fall asleep. The person you love doesn't necessarily love you back. A pair of lovebirds can't be together probably due to the different status or religion. A wife will be seperated from her husband who died in an accident or natural cause. A marriage of 10 years falls apart when another person enters into the picture.
..... well that's my personal view on love. To others, my relationship may look pretty from the outside. But trust me, sometimes it turns ugly and hard to handle! I fell in love 6 years ago. Working hard day and night trying to stay in love. And I.Must.Not.Fall.Out.Of.Love coz he's the nicest guy i've ever met! heh...i'm working on it! Wish me luck ;)
5 comments:
its true wutever u wrote ash..the thing tht u hope in the person u luv the most is tht the person will stay as the person u fell for, or kalau change pun for the better.it sucks to know tht the person ur wth is out of luv, wutever u do pun its not gonna change tht person2 mind. soal hati katekan. i know how it feels. sumtimes to the extent tht u cnt even trust a person anymore cause ur just too scared to fall in luv and being hurt again n again..
ashie, macammane dgn org mcm i yang mmg fall out of love with all guys yang i met?! takotsss ashie... takot sgt.. i'm straight tapi.. nape i rasa macam berperasaan lebih kepada kawan and not romantically attracted dgn sume tuh... takotss *friggin*
i totally agree with what you said. i fell in love 6 yrs ago too, and been working on it ever since. ;) wish you all the best, semoga kekal ke anak cucu! :D
its been 6 years since u and mujid in item? GIla hot!! i baru je 6 bulan and a lot of things we will go through later.
all the best, have fun, take it easy but seriously, girl, mujid is a catch! and you are a catch jugak!!!
::.::uchnana::.:: well i suppose loving is not about owning. so if the person dh change his/her feelings towards you, then tak guna nak paksa pun. takke? but to move on, keluar from the routine is tough. confirm mmg susah la!!!! babe, love will heals but it's time consuming.u can do it husna....tough chick!!!! :)
::.::nono::.:: ahahaha maybe u belum meet the right one? like takde lagi yang the special one yg menarik minat u. hehehe :D sabar babe, your time will come ;)ke u cerewet huh? :P
::.::maya::.:: funny la uuuuu!!! i belum nk kawin lagi. *blushblush* nnti i dh kawin, u wish again k??? :) u too, good luck with your relationship wif the bf!
::.::idayani::.:: take it easy kan??? i agreeee. no rush. no pressure. kan? hahaha. ala yani, u sure berbahagia now...tgh hangat2 lagi niiii! hehehe ;) goodluck to you and harriz tau!
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