Greetings people :)
A little bird told me not to compromise for second best. That we should all marry the one we feel happiest and most compatible with. I have to agree with this 'lil bird of mine. It can't just be anybody! It has to be SOMEBODY! Somebody that you are willing to tolerate with 24/7. Somebody that you are able to accept his strength and weaknesses. Somebody... lets just say somebody who is special :)
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Mama always said that i should marry someone who loves me more than i love him. So at the end of the day, he will never ever leaves me.
Urmmmm, you guys actually believe these 2 principles go along well with each other? huahuahua tipooo lah tuh! I mean, in this real world, wuts best to you would be the guy that scored maybe 90% and above of the criteria in your dream-guy-list. But do you actually think a guy can be that purrrfect? And if wujud pun, do you think he will fall hard for you? :P ok, it's possible if you cantek banget, hot banget, panas habis lah! But among you, you, you and you, *drum roll* only YOU (pointing at one person) will get him. So wut will happen to the rest of you? Settle down for the second best? Or still hunt for your dream guy?
What if a nice, decent guy comes along and fall for you? Will you settle down coz he loves you more than you love him? Which means, you are settling down for the second best....arent you????!!!!
Haaah!!! See, told ya...these two don't get along that well! hahahaha ;)
7 comments:
yesss ibu, it's easier for a girl to learn to love a guy compared to the other way around. Tapi ibu, if we keep on telling ourselves that we can learn to love him, doesnt that mean we are willing to lower our standard? We are willing to accept the second best?????? Isnt it? Betul tak ibuuu?
ijah, trust me.. when i wrote this entry, i tot...wut the heck, im not making any sense at all!!!! hahaha! kesimpulannye, in my point of view, u have to choose either one of the advise! It's either you choose the one who loves u more and like ibu said, learn to love him back. And live happily ever after. Or keep on searching for your Mr. Right and well hopefully he loves you back! I dunno..maybe im being sceptical "a girl chase for the guy" kinda thingy! Im kuno, yes i am! hahaha
amira, apo ko bondo yang betul ni???? *peace amira*
mujid, this is my space! i shall write wutever i want! it'll include everything that ever crossed my mind. And basically, its about my boring life wokeh :P
ok korang, wut i'm trying to say is.... you will not always get wut you want! I guess accepting somebody who is about the level yang you nk is good enuff, no? Afterall, tak semestinya ape yg kite suke tue baik utk kite n ape yg kite tak suke tue la baik utk kite(2:216) "somebody" used to say this back in coll! Taj should know who ;) huahuahuahua!
can i make a guess who always aid that back in coll??? hihi
datin, great minds think alike lah! hahahaha...i know who you're thinking about!!! ;) biar pecah di perut, jgn pecah di mulut...wokeh?!!!!
ibuuuuuuuuu!!!
i like ur explanation :) it makes sense!hehehe...but i guess ade certain limit lah kot. i mean, eventho u ckp not to set any specific criteria...but confirm ade base-line for a guy to jd ur bf or insyallah husband-to-be??? kan kan kan?? yang penting jgn cerewet sgt lah kot!!!! hehehehe
nwy, dont worry! insyallah you will meet HIM sooon!!!
n ibuuuu, i nakgi soton lahhhhhh!!!!!!
this is a popular topic isn't it..i agree with ibu i din set any criteria too! but i agree with ash that we should at least have a baseline...x nak lah dpt org merepek2...and as my mum said, jangan cerewet sgt...nanti x de langsung...but i can't help being picky..so how?? hahahah
i nak gi soton jugakkkkk!!!!!!!
i would like to make some quotation here..
[quote]Mama always said that i should marry someone who loves me more than i love him. So at the end of the day, he will never ever leaves me. [/quote]
Actually ur mama is rite. you should find someone who loves you better but don't you think that it is totally unfair to him if you just love him a little? at the end of the day, he'll find himself get exploited by you. perhaps la... ngehehehe... *it is just my thought*
-nono-
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dear nono,
honestly, do u think that people in a relationship has equal love towards each other? naaaaah! well, thats my personnal opinion lah! some may not think like me. some might agree with me!im not trying to say there's a big gap of love like sorang 20% and another is 80%. It doesnt work the 50-50 way!
i mean, for somebody to start the relationship tu dulu...nak ajak u kluar...to have the courage incase u kene rejected ke...doesnt that means org tu have deeper feelings towards you? i mean, yeah...u might like him too but takdelah smpi sanggup nk start dulu and menanggung malu incase kene reject.
so kesimpulannye, find somebody who loves you more...but it'll only works if you love him back! atleast, learn to lah! tp insyallah that shouldnt be a problem sbb perempuan ni hatinye lembut! :)
*hugs*
ps-managed to drop by at ur site just now! :)
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