April 07, 2011

too young?

how do you answer to the question, "kenapa nak kahwin skrg? tak rasa rugi ke?"

...eerrrrr dah ketemu jodoh; terbuka pintu hati to get married now.

...uhm 26 is not that young lah! my parents got married when they were 20. and got their first child when they turned 21.

...or simply say, saya dah gatal. *cheeky grins* [confirmed nobody wants to ask anything dah!]


oklah putting the jokes aside, i honestly don't think marriage is a penghalang to expand your career. obviously it's hard lah kan nak juggle those two together? nak kembangkan family. also nak kembangkan career.

...but feasible kan?

don't need to wait till i jadi specialist baru can kahwin, no? ha ha ha.

4 comments:

h.3.l.3.n said...

my nurses say the same thing about my colleagues who wana marry this year.. dah Gatal sudah tak boleh tunggu LOL

Myra said...

really? i've never thought of it as being something to feel rugi about lol.

i've always thought of it as a cool thing. of course any relationship pun tidak mudah to maintain but, ..in what way can it be viewed as satu kerugian? duit wise pun, probably cheaper than pre-kahwin coz (maybe) duduk serumah so no phone bills, satu rent if you're renting. hmmm, how interesting

Tahirah A. said...

if i can turn back the time, ill definitely choose to marry at young age... :)

ashieBee said...

::helen::
kenot tunggu whaaaat? :P

::myra::
well u can see it from many perspectives lah. untung from which side, rugi from which side. obviously got la give and take. but if u're so in love and ready to settle down, why wait any longer? kan? i pun terkejut jugak when that staff asked me..but maybe sbb our specialist pun tak kawin lagi. so she felt maybe i mcm wasting abit la. maklumlah nnti dah kawin, kot2 mengandung soon, ntah bile lagi laaaa nak continue belajar tu :O

::tahirah::
how young is young dear? time belajar ke? hehehe. itu i confirmed kenot lah! hidup i tunggang langgang time nak exam.lol. but if i were given the chance, i nak kawin right immediately after graduation AND before start kerja. can honeymoon longerrrrr...bukan mcm skrg! :((