December 21, 2010

the things that we need

ieverybody seems to be getting married nowadays. if not, how come got too many invitations one? 25 seems to be the just-right age to get married! *wink*

unfortunately i had to ditched 2 invitations on saturday as i was too busy, being the cinderella of the house, scrubbing the floor of our lanai four times. i repeat: FOUR BLOODY TIMES. i swear the tikus/burung that kept on poop-ing on that floor will have sembelit for the coming one month. ggrrrrrrrrrr.

but i was determined to get to bie's wedding the very next day! mesti ohkay. the reception was held at dewan komuniti taman tun dr. ismail. very simple and yet very meriah indeed!


anyhooooo, it is soooo obvious that we are aging because... we see relationship in a more matured perspective now. it's not all about "love at first sight" with the lupdup oh-my-heart-skips-a-beat whenever i'm near you. it's not just about having fun being around him.

what's a husband-material guy?
probably someone that is stable- financially, emotionally, spiritually; and can actually be the man of the house. the leader of the family. someone that can be a good companion throughout life; be it good times bad times. someone that might not be a perfect person but he completes you. most importantly, you and him must have the same thinking of where this relationship will brings you to. there's no point of being with a person yang marriage never crosses his mind at all. no?

ok rasa seperti orang tua matang. berfikiran jauh. cehcehceh.

2 comments:

The Spasmodic Scribbler said...

I like my guy to be a deep thinker. Thinks ahead and looks into the future. Takes responsibilities and most important of all,is very handy when it comes to religion.

Love is not all about lovey dovey. Those days are gone. Love is a responsibility.

ashieBee said...

aaaahhh the religion part, i second that. in the end, you need a guy that can lead you utk kebaikan dunia and akhirat. kan?