talking to others about your feeling is important. some share their problems and thoughts with their parents. but when the problem starts at home, between your parents- who do you run to?
sometimes you try to bottle up your anger. keep everything within yourself. play pretend that everything is alright, going to be ok.
but somehow, subconsciously, once you've reached the maximus of your patience level.... the anger starts to sip out. maybe you don't talk about your problems out-loud, in public. but you started to criticize, see things negatively, everything pun salah! emo tak kira tempat.
yang kene tempias? those always by your side. YOUR FRIENDS.
you see, as close friends, we try to be understanding. try to put ourselves in the shoes of our emo problematic friend. try to come up with excuses whenever the friend explode randomly. try to forgive and forget.
but the more i think about it, our main aim is actually to avoid any drama within us.
...somehow it's getting more and more tiring :((
it's true that we share our problems with friends BUT they are not the dumping site of your frustrations. they are not there to absorb your anger.not a punch bag to throw your fits around. not a toy for your childish tantrum.
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ckp kt dia (tp version u)
"duuuuuude! i tau its chaotic n all, tapi kan. u're not ur parents dude! u can be a different person, like tooootally"
membantu ke?? lol
hahahahha u think should ke tegur the friend like dat?
...or should just sabar a little bit more?
i guess ur own version of:
"i know u dh dgr so byk kali, tp relax, deep breathing tenangkan fikiran. chill. everyone ada their own version of stress"
it tells them they're not alone in having problems and gentle coping skills punya reminder.
karate kid movie lama, mr miyagi cakap:
when feel no life, breaaaatthheee deeeeeeply. no breathing, no life.
haha ;)
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