less than 48hours left before 2008 ends. year 2009 is approaching. it means that i'm turning 24 soon. it also means that i have exactly 1 year and 6 months left being an undergraduate. pfffffttttttt. time flies. it seems like each day passed by faster than the bullet train in japan. pejam celik, pejam celik....dah tam-mat ;))
here is a brief summary of 10 things i've learnt from the dramamama of my 2008:
1. long-distance relationship is tough. time difference makes it even worse. it requires more work work work and sacrifice. this is when i realised that it is hard to find a balance between moi-prime-time, friends and bofwen.
2. nothing is impossible in life; if you whole-heartedly commit yourself to make it a success. miracles and luck are not the major thing that determine the end result. in the end of the day, how much you gave is how much you'll get back in return. the more focus you are, the more alert you are, the more chances to be grabbed....
3. gossips are not JUST gossips. people won't keep on talking about it if there is no truth behind it. bak kate orang, kalau tiada angin, masakan pokok bisa goyang.
4. you don't walk out and away from those that matter most to you. no matter how big the problem is, how dodgy the situation is, how difficult it is to understand and rationalized the other party's action... you just don't give up on them.
5. it is not cheap to get married nowadays. no fulus, no wedding reception.
6. as much as i want to act more like an adult, more matured and less emotional... once in a while i can't help it but to let go of the inner-child in me. i sulked.i said things i don't really mean to say. i know in the end of the day i'll regret all this kiddish-act of mine. but *sigh* can't help it la....how eh?
7. when people changed, it doesn't mean that the past shared with him/her was totally fake. it's just that the path has diverged into a T-junction. and both of you decided to follow different exit. nobody should be blamed for not wanting to go the same way. instead, be grateful that at least both of you have shared some memories together.
8. loving is not about owning.
9. avoiding and giving lame excuses are like taking painkiller when you are having a bad toothache but (still) refused to visit the dentist. it helps in short-run. but long term?
10. if make-up is meant to enhance your beauty, confidence is what it needs to make you shine. when you feel good about yourself, note your strength, aware of the flaws but not to feel extremely low because of it... you will be able to dance on the stage smoothly, with all those pair of eyes watching over you.
goodbye 2008. hello 2009.
here is a brief summary of 10 things i've learnt from the dramamama of my 2008:
1. long-distance relationship is tough. time difference makes it even worse. it requires more work work work and sacrifice. this is when i realised that it is hard to find a balance between moi-prime-time, friends and bofwen.
2. nothing is impossible in life; if you whole-heartedly commit yourself to make it a success. miracles and luck are not the major thing that determine the end result. in the end of the day, how much you gave is how much you'll get back in return. the more focus you are, the more alert you are, the more chances to be grabbed....
3. gossips are not JUST gossips. people won't keep on talking about it if there is no truth behind it. bak kate orang, kalau tiada angin, masakan pokok bisa goyang.
4. you don't walk out and away from those that matter most to you. no matter how big the problem is, how dodgy the situation is, how difficult it is to understand and rationalized the other party's action... you just don't give up on them.
5. it is not cheap to get married nowadays. no fulus, no wedding reception.
6. as much as i want to act more like an adult, more matured and less emotional... once in a while i can't help it but to let go of the inner-child in me. i sulked.i said things i don't really mean to say. i know in the end of the day i'll regret all this kiddish-act of mine. but *sigh* can't help it la....how eh?
7. when people changed, it doesn't mean that the past shared with him/her was totally fake. it's just that the path has diverged into a T-junction. and both of you decided to follow different exit. nobody should be blamed for not wanting to go the same way. instead, be grateful that at least both of you have shared some memories together.
8. loving is not about owning.
9. avoiding and giving lame excuses are like taking painkiller when you are having a bad toothache but (still) refused to visit the dentist. it helps in short-run. but long term?
10. if make-up is meant to enhance your beauty, confidence is what it needs to make you shine. when you feel good about yourself, note your strength, aware of the flaws but not to feel extremely low because of it... you will be able to dance on the stage smoothly, with all those pair of eyes watching over you.
goodbye 2008. hello 2009.
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