October 02, 2007

I used to think that hey, probably la kan...if a girl sticks with him, shows to him how great her love is...(probably) sooner or later, the guy will eventually falls for her. I mean, definitely he'll get used to the idea of having her in his life. Sure lonely if the girl is no longer there. Then he realizes that he needs her. They'll be together. End of story.

But I guess i was wrong.

If you make yourself too available for a guy, he will not learn how to appreciates you. He'll see you like a convenient-store. You know, macam 7-eleven gitu. Buka 24hours. Can always come and go anytime he wants. But maybe, if you jual mahal sket...probably he'll work harder to get your attention. He'll thinks that you are worth the fight. And yeah, some guys do enjoy the chasing bits.They love the challenge ;) Baru thrill gitu!!!

5 comments:

shakirah said...

but once the chase is over the guy will eventually get into the comfort zone and take the girl for granted jugak. tak ke?

anyway the key is for the girls to do everything in moderation, because girls tend to commit themselves too much, way too much compared to the guy. we should make the guys work hard to make us stay! hehe...

ashieBee said...

oooooooooo i loike the idea of having the guys to work hard to make us stay!!!! ahahahaa....seriously, they shouldn't take us for granted. sape ckp a girl cant walk away from a relationship? hehehe...well jarang ar. but it can happens, right?

but shak, lelaki ni mmg originally malas. once dh dpt, mcm tu jelah! wut to do..... bile we make it too easy, diorang tk berusaha. bile we make it too hard, sometimes diorang tk perasan pun. in the end, the girls yg stress. ekekekeke :P

Anonymous said...

nak jadi boutique2 dlm klcc la.. available for all but not everyone can afford to buy things from me. can a??

you must think that i'm sick! Hahha. boutique klcc tuh... hahaha
*nuts*

ashieBee said...

=)

ahahaha chomyl giler example u. but a gud one indeed *thumbs up* high-class sikit gitu ek? ;)

Myra said...

hey Ash! :D

tiba2 trs nk comment plak xp

i think it takes two to tango. the guy or the girl xblh nk rest on being bf-gf cm..masing2 haruslah make the relationship work. jgn rely on the other person utk do all the work. personally i think biar lelaki tu kerja lebih skit to please the girl sbb br it shows he wants it (sbb guys slalu xpandai show).

anyway thats what i think :)