Saw "that" which was written on a shirt from Topshop last week! I find it cute! ahahaha :D
And it got me thinking! Sure cool kan if everything works out the way you planned? Have supportive family members as your backbone. In love and being loved by loving partner. Surrounded by wonderful friends. Great job with BIG payment. And basically have everything you ever dream of laaaaa.....
But, it's I-M-P-O-S-S-I-B-L-E, no?
Some parents work soooo hard so that they can give everything that their children want. Mungkin niat diorang baik...probably to give something MORE than what they had during their childhood! They work their asses off, day and nite.... and spend less time with their children. It's true they feed the kids with all the luxuries...but the time ber"bonding" with each other terkorban!
....money or family?
When you are single, your girlfriends are like everything to you! Well actually your friends are your favourite crowd...where you spend most of your time with them! Lepak mamak same2, have girls night out, all those pillow talks, shop gossip shop gossip...everything lah together! They know your latest crush, your newest zit, your fav top and sometimes they even remember your menstrual cycle! ahaha ;) But things change when you meet your other half! Somehow your friends mcm....hilang dalam ramai? ahahaha! You spend less time with them, talk less with them (simpan credit/free mins to gayut wif bf!), see less of them (more time hanging out with bf!).... and suddenly it felt like 2 worlds apart! Like...we're strangers now?!
.....gf or bf?
Orang cakap kene amalkan kesederhanaan in anything that you do! Have balance in life! But unconsciously, sometimes you get carried away...and terlupa! Or probably as you enter another phase of life, you've changed your priority! I mean, yeah dulu memang lah kawan-kawan paling penting....but nanti bila dah 20-ish, obviously kene start fikir nak kawin! Like hellooo....takkan nak stay single till tua kot? ahahaha :P
....so, where's the fine, fine line that separates the extreme-moderate thingy? Or there will never be a time when everybody-is-happy-and-satisfied? It's either A or B, so pick and choose which one lar!
ps- I cuba dan terus mencuba to have balance between friends-bf! But if one day i lost my way...please, do guide me home! :)
And it got me thinking! Sure cool kan if everything works out the way you planned? Have supportive family members as your backbone. In love and being loved by loving partner. Surrounded by wonderful friends. Great job with BIG payment. And basically have everything you ever dream of laaaaa.....
But, it's I-M-P-O-S-S-I-B-L-E, no?
Some parents work soooo hard so that they can give everything that their children want. Mungkin niat diorang baik...probably to give something MORE than what they had during their childhood! They work their asses off, day and nite.... and spend less time with their children. It's true they feed the kids with all the luxuries...but the time ber"bonding" with each other terkorban!
....money or family?
When you are single, your girlfriends are like everything to you! Well actually your friends are your favourite crowd...where you spend most of your time with them! Lepak mamak same2, have girls night out, all those pillow talks, shop gossip shop gossip...everything lah together! They know your latest crush, your newest zit, your fav top and sometimes they even remember your menstrual cycle! ahaha ;) But things change when you meet your other half! Somehow your friends mcm....hilang dalam ramai? ahahaha! You spend less time with them, talk less with them (simpan credit/free mins to gayut wif bf!), see less of them (more time hanging out with bf!).... and suddenly it felt like 2 worlds apart! Like...we're strangers now?!
.....gf or bf?
Orang cakap kene amalkan kesederhanaan in anything that you do! Have balance in life! But unconsciously, sometimes you get carried away...and terlupa! Or probably as you enter another phase of life, you've changed your priority! I mean, yeah dulu memang lah kawan-kawan paling penting....but nanti bila dah 20-ish, obviously kene start fikir nak kawin! Like hellooo....takkan nak stay single till tua kot? ahahaha :P
....so, where's the fine, fine line that separates the extreme-moderate thingy? Or there will never be a time when everybody-is-happy-and-satisfied? It's either A or B, so pick and choose which one lar!
ps- I cuba dan terus mencuba to have balance between friends-bf! But if one day i lost my way...please, do guide me home! :)
11 comments:
"They know your latest crush, your newest zit, your fav top and sometimes they even remember your menstrual cycle!"
hahahaha....sounds familiar the last part...lawak2
I guess if we have EVERY single thing, we wont know the meaning of the word "Thankful". We won`t know how to appreciate what we have now. We tend to want more and more things because we get everything that we want that one day, when finally, we don`t get everything that we want, we get upset, and are a bit lost. We are denial and we hate to admit that we can`t have everything that we want in this world for we are soooo used of having things our way until it gets the better of us. Life has its ups and downs. Full of choices, full of hopes, full of opportunities, full of obstacles, full of happiness, full of heartaches, full of colours, full of surprises. It IS sad, it IS painful of not getting what really really want in life. What we want in life might not be what we really really need. I guess if we look really closely and take a little bit of time to look around us maybe we already have every single thing that we need :P. But hey, as a greedy human being, we always want more eventhough we don`t need it dont we ^_~?
ahahaha familiar ey??? kekekeke :P i was thinking of us when i wrote that phrase!!! so true la weeiiiiii!!!! :D
and ibuuuuu, ke mana telah kamu menghilangkan diri dong???!!!! sudah lama enggak berbicara online dong!!! rindu banget mendengar kata-kata mu :P ahahahahahaha sengal giler rashidah mlm2 ni!!! *sorry ibu, excess does of plaque-related diseases ni!!!!* nwy ibu, u have a good point there! be thankful; that's wut most of us forgot nowadays!!!!We always want more and More and MORE!!!! i guess, we life by moment kot! We cant have all at one time..but appreciate wut we have at the mo :) make the best out of it!!!!
wut we get? PURE HAPPINESS!!!! agreeee????!!!!!!
ehh silap, we *live* by moment!!! ape kes tibe2 ade *life*????? ahahahahahahaa bile ke"ngok-ngek"an melandaaaaaa :S
we'll get all our 'wants' later in heaven insyaAllah..as for now marilah meng'clear' our jalan to syurga kay..
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hmmm mendalam pendapat u tuh hussss!
i had that in mind too before i jumped into relationship not long ago. I don't want to loose my friendship i have now, another person to replace my sister's position to hear my dreams and stories, to replace my mom's position to listen to my complaints, I dont want my life to revolve around my boyfriend's life.
But the truth is, our live, will definitely revolve around the person we love the most, the person we really like to be with. when we were single, we like our friends the most, so we lepak all the time with them. when we are not single, we like our bf the most, tp bila gaduh, our friends balik kannn hihihihi!
its ok baby, dont worry..i know u will constantly remind urself to balance up!
i ade bc these kind of things where you devoted yourself too much with the so-called money-centered, gf-centered and bla bla bla centered. but conclusion nyer.. put first thing first. and one should knows which one comes first.. ;P
p/s i lupe buku tuhhh.. huhuh
::.::yani::.:: a'ahhhhh bile gado cr kawan balik hihihih! sbb tu i takley terima org yang bile dh couple, batang hidung pun tk nmpk!!! atleast kene la jumpe skali skala....not asking much mcm everyday la kannnn!!!! but heh, some ppl laaaaa! heheheheh :P ye ye yaniiiii, i tau u bahagia sekarang!!!! kekekekekekek! cemburu cemburu...sbb mine dah sejukkkk!!!! kene hangatkan baliiiiikkk ;)
::.::nono::.::which one comes first ey? hmmm....tulahh, i nak semua pls???? ahahhaa! rashidah tamak!!!! wiuwiu :D
esok i exammmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!
yang penting.. bersyukur! and knowing you've done the best that you could
asalkan tak buat jahat dekat orang, dah :)
and a lot can happen to friendship.. i trust u won't lose any ash. but things will only turn out ugly if both sides decided to be ignorant
dirrrssss!!!!
urmm best for one party may not be the best for the rest. I guess it depends on who you wants to satisfy kot! no? hehehe! and yeah, pretty disappointing if both parties pun takde effort. But cant blame them actually! sometimes u just rase demotivated if your fren kept on bw the bf to every gathering ke... or kept on giving excuses everytime reunion or gathering or function. At one point, u just give up! Macam malas dahla nk work on it... ke i je yang malas mcm tuh? rase malas mau kacau! kekekekee :P
dirrr, goodluck exam! wheneva that is lah :) gambatteeeee!
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