HE - TOX RULE!!!

You've just got dumped! Or maybe a guy that you like just rejected you. Sad huh? It felt as if you're unwanted!Suddenly your world turns dark and you find yourself standing in the middle of nowhere. Alone. You cry and cry and cry. Some relieve their sadness by excessiveconsumption of chocolates or ice-cream or anything. Some run to their friends who offered ears to listen and shoulders to cry on. Meanwhile some just keep it all to themselves.

It's been months after your breakup. And you're still sad!!! WHAAAAT???!!! C'mmonlah babe, lets move on!!!!

You said you've tried! But it's terribly hard to forget the guy that used to give you the "lub dub" heartbeat. Well yeah, i bet his "best-angle-photo" is still in your room; even worse if it's under your pillow so you could have a last peek before you go to bed!

Girls, it's not worth to think or even crave for the guy who just broke your heart! If he really loves you, he will NEVER EVER be that cruel towards you. What?! You asked me what if he IS THE ONE???? Well, im not GOD who tells what gonna happens in the future. I dunno what lies infront of me, or you or anybody. But is it worth it to stay there and hold on to used-to-be-your-boy while he maybe (MAYBE ok!) is having lotsa fun with other girls right now? You think im a pessimist? Say what you like but i soooo rase it's true that guys can NEVER live without girls!!! Hellooo, even laki mati bini pun boleh kawin lain walaupun kubur arwah still merah. Inikan pulak setakat gf-bf je. That's when the "re-bound gf" comes into the picture. Get it?

"So what should i do?" you asked.

People do detoxification when they want to get rid of poison or toxin inside their body. So you gonna have "he-tox"!!!!! Basically, dont make any contact with him in 60days. Nak hantar barang? Ask your breakup buddy to do it for you. Aiyooo too long ar?! Well in the book, they said that 60days will be just nice for you to first get rid of him from your mind and then heal yourself and finally be able to face him; without any feelings towards him anymore. The logic behind this? Well when you're in a relationship, you terbiasa having him around you all the time. That's why you feel lonely after the breakup. So now if you get use of being alone,having your own life without him, then you wont feel like you really need him anymore. And plus, kadang2 the theory " Jauh di mata, jauh di hati" is sort of true! heheehehe :P

So now lets put all of the memories of both of you inside a box and seal it! You can throw it if you want but once a friend told me that sometimes we do need some memories. It can either be sweet or bitter. But they are the one that turn you into what you're today. You're definitely stronger after this and perhaps, wiser in choosing the right guy ;)