There's no doubt about it - breakup SUCK!!!! Some things cant or shouldnt be fixed, especially the loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It's over for a reason, and deep inside you know what the reason is. It's called a breakup because it's broken.
I found this book written by Gregg Behrendt quite interesting. It's how you cope with the breakup; what to do and what not to do. I'm really attracted to the letters sent in to Gregg by his readers; sharing their experiences. "Psycho confessional" where women shared the silly things they did during their breakup and regretted it later. And "You thought your relationship was bad" shows bad relationship taken to the extreme.
Ohwell, after reading this book, i macam terfikir.... Is women really that weak sampaikan we selalu kena buli by men? Is it because we terlalu "baik hati" and "lembut" until we always give excuses whenever the men did their mistakes? We're kidding ourselves; tak rase macam bodoh ke? And are we really that "cheap" until we're willing to let go of our ego (and in a way, i soo rase merendahkan our self-esteem) and do anything for the sake of continuing the relationship? Walaupun terang-terang memang it's really obvious the other person is ready to let go of it? hmm... maybe because most of the breakup examples were given by his women readers....thus lack of men readers membuatkan i rase men dont face breakup as hard as women do! Is it true???
Well whatever it is, manusia hanya merancang and tuhan yang menentukan. Some relationships have shorter journeys and others are meant for a lifetime. When the relationship doesnt work out the way you planned, dont blame yourself or your partner. Two great people can get together and have horrible chemistry. When someone walks away, it means they have fallen out of love for whatever reasons, have wanted out for a really long time, and finally got up the courage to do the deed.Because you know what, breaking up with someone is really hard to do - it takes a lot of courage to pull the plug on relationship. Girls, you wouldnt want to hurt you toes by pushing it hard into a shoe that doesnt fit you anymore right? So just throw it away!!!! Remember that it is better not to be in a relationship rather than stuck in a broken one.
Enuff said, i will try to update about my summer trip soon. Till then, have a nice day people :)
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