"Life without a friend is death without witness."
I think it's true sebab without friends,life is meaningless.There's no one to share your joy and happiness.No one to lend their shoulders when you shed a tear.No one to joke around with.No one to hug you when you need comfort.etc etc.I think you guys can add a whole list of that ;)
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back when you have forgotten the words."
whoa!!!Macam soulmate la plaks.... but it's true.It doesnt happen to any person but to a particular friends lah.If it happens to everyone, there'll be no more special friends @ bestfriends. It doesnt necessarily be one-to-one friendship, it might be 5 closed friends. Or maybe even larger like errr 10? Maybe..dunno lah!ngehehe. But something happened today and it suddently strucked in my head,"Even in the whole gang pun, for sure ade yang lebih rapat dengan orang tertentu." So this soulmate thing memang takkan happen between ramai-ramai orang. Hmm it probably wont hurt that much if you happen to be the favourite one... but wut if you're to un-favaourite friend??Hmm..that would be sad huh? Even sadder if they remember special occasion for the favourite one but not you :( Poor you!!!
"You cant stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes."
Effort in maintaining a friendship is really important tau.And everyone should play their roles. Bukannye tunggu orang sane msg you dulu, then you baru reply. Why dont you start it first? No harm of making the first move...Yeayea, i know sometimes it's a pain in the ass bile everytime asyik2 you je kena start dulu. Macam as if you terhegeh-hegeh nak kawan ngan die... as if macam you never cross his/her mind thats why die tak pernah msg you. Been there.Could really understand those feelings. What i can say is, probably die terlalu busy kot..give him/her some time but if dah berzaman pun still tak berubah, probably he/she doesnt worth the effort lah....
"Forsake not an old friend, for new one does not compare with him."
As you move on, you'll meet more people and start making new friends. Some people said that when you start making new friends, you'll start forgetting the old one too. Well yeah, i know things have change now...your new friends might be different from your old friends but that's not a good excuse to ditch your old friend tau! And plus, after all those things you guys have been through...shiisshh!
"Odd how much it hurts when a friend moves away- and leaves behind only silence."
It hurts...it hurts soooo much!!!! No word can describe it :( If only you knew..... haihhhh!
--> Kesimpulannye, if you think you have a friend yang you dah lama giler tak tegur, why dont nudge them and say hi :) probably they're waiting for you now.And tak kira how busy you are, just drop by for a while...it might brighten up their day. And owh, dont over-show your pilih kasih among your friends...coz it's menyakitkan hatiiiii!!! You wont know until you kena...
daaaaaaaaa~
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